S, it is ten thousand percent bullshit that you aren't allowing yourself to have needs.
Stop that.
Take care of yourself. YOU ARE ALSO SUFFERING. You are not in the center ring, but you're the next ring out.
I can TELL YOU FOR SURE, this will, and rightly should, fuck you up -- cuz you care about B.
This is NOT all about B. I think a support group or somewhere to process your feels that isn't just LJ is also a thing you should consider. Trust me; I went through this.... you OWE IT TO BRENDA to HAVE YOUR OWN SHIT TOGETHER -- by which i mean, GETTING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AND PROCESSING YOUR FEELS, *NOT* ignoring your emotions and pretending you don't have them or de-prioritizing them.
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timeasmymeasure
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Date: 2017-03-14 09:42 pm (UTC)Stop that.
Take care of yourself. YOU ARE ALSO SUFFERING. You are not in the center ring, but you're the next ring out.
I can TELL YOU FOR SURE, this will, and rightly should, fuck you up -- cuz you care about B.
This is NOT all about B.
I think a support group or somewhere to process your feels that isn't just LJ is also a thing you should consider. Trust me; I went through this.... you OWE IT TO BRENDA to HAVE YOUR OWN SHIT TOGETHER -- by which i mean, GETTING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AND PROCESSING YOUR FEELS, *NOT* ignoring your emotions and pretending you don't have them or de-prioritizing them.
<3 love you.