newlifeinstpaul | Friends Don't Let Friends Date Incels

There's a dude in a community I'm in that does NOTHING but try to chase women. Nothing wrong with seeking a sig other--unless you don't wanna do the Actual Work involved. On occasion, I've even snatched him off of couches, led him to Human Beings, introduced him and cued him to speak. Crickets.

I made a new friend in person recently that he's been pursuing online. In weird and awkward fashion. She's invited him to come out to see her; he's backed off, with various excuses.

As she and I grew closer, she started sending me screenshot after screenshot of Dumb Shit he says. It's sad.

In time, they finally met. He figuratively Shit the Bed. She said no. As a fully-developed, mature human being she offered him friendship. He whimpered, waffled and whined.

And, of course, wouldn't stop talking online after saying he'd unfriend her.

As a Dude who sees women as Fit For One Thing Only? He grew suspicious of our friendship. He'd tell me I should 'shoot my shot.' I'd reply We're Not Like That. He'd tell me that same shit again. I'd reply that I'm poly AND partnered, and that's not her style. Not that it mattered.

Annnnywayyyyy, she and I were hanging out with a group. He decided to take an invite, then drop it--JUST to post comments and shit. It's exhausting.

My friend and I had a Communual Evil Gigglefit and decided to Fuck His Whole Existence.